It’s amazing what happens when people face their own mortality. It doesn’t matter the age, either. Everyone who has been diagnosed with a life ending illness says the same thing: don’t sweat the small stuff.
One young Australian woman dying of Ewing’s Sarcoma, a horrid bone cancer, left behind a letter with just those sentiments to her family and friends.
“I haven’t started this ‘note before I die’ so that death is feared – I like the fact that we are mostly ignorant to it’s inevitability.. Except when I want to talk about it and it is treated like a ‘taboo’ topic that will never happen to any of us.. That’s been a bit tough. I just want people to stop worrying so much about the small, meaningless stresses in life and try to remember that we all have the same fate after it all so do what you can to make your time feel worthy and great, minus the bullshit….
“Those times you are whinging about ridiculous things (something I have noticed so much these past few months), just think about someone who is really facing a problem. Be grateful for your minor issue and get over it. It’s okay to acknowledge that something is annoying but try not to carry on about it and negatively effect other people’s days….
“You might have got caught in bad traffic today, or had a bad sleep because your beautiful babies kept you awake, or your hairdresser cut your hair too short. Your new fake nails might have got a chip, your boobs are too small, or you have cellulite on your arse and your belly is wobbling.
“Let all that shit go.. I swear you will not be thinking of those things when it is your turn to go. It is all SO insignificant when you look at life as a whole. I’m watching my body waste away right before my eyes with nothing I can do about it and all I wish for now is that I could have just one more Birthday or Christmas with my family, or just one more day with my partner and dog. Just one more.”
And with those words, 27-year old Holly Butcher gives us all the real clues to living: do not sweat the small stuff, and do what it takes to be happy in your life, work, and love.
Pretty profound for someone so young.
To read all of Holly’s words of wisdom, click here.